Single? It's Not You. It's Your Technique! We live in a
world that is more emotionally disconnected than ever—especially for the more
than 40% of adults who are single. For them, getting dates, building chemistry,
inspiring genuine investment, and making it past those critical first six weeks
without things falling apart feels like a Herculean task. Dating today means
navigating a gauntlet of app rejections, awkward silences, overthought texts,
and the exhausting push-and-pull of their own attachment patterns (not to
mention their potential partner’s). It can feel less like finding love and more
like surviving it. But here’s the truth: it’s not you—it’s your technique. With
30 years of experience helping thousands of singles find lasting love, Alisa
Goodwin Snell knows exactly what’s getting in your way—and how to fix it.
Single? It’s Not You. It’s Your Technique! is a proven, practical guide that
meets you wherever you are in your dating journey, giving you the tools to go
from first date to real, lasting connection—with confidence.
Who Should Read This Book
Singles struggling with modern dating
Men and women are tired of unhealthy relationship patterns
Readers wanting practical relationship guidance
People seeking emotional clarity in dating
Teasers
“Chemistry without clarity creates confusion.”
“The first six weeks can determine the future of a relationship.”
“Dating success is not luck. It’s a technique.”
The Inspiration
These books were inspired by Alisa’s 30 years of experience helping singles understand dating patterns, emotional behavior, and relationship clarity.
Alisa Goodwin Snell has spent more than 30 years helping singles and couples build healthier, happier relationships, including 17 years as a marriage and family therapist and 20 years as a dating and relationship strategist. After seeing how often singles struggled with the gap between relationship theory and practical dating skills, she began creating techniques to simplify the dating experience. This work evolved into numerous books, audio recordings, and videos published for private sale by the Lasting Love Academy.
Now, Alisa is releasing her books to the general population, beginning with two complementary versions of Single? It’s Not You. It’s Your Technique!, one for men and another for women. These books help readers move from fear, confusion, and unhealthy relationships toward safer, healthier, and more meaningful dating experiences with greater potential for lasting love. Her practical and compassionate techniques have helped thousands of singles bridge the differences between male and female perspectives, improve verbal and nonverbal communication, and enhance chemistry and connection.
With warmth, insight, and decades of experience, Alisa helps readers feel more hopeful, more confident, and better equipped to find and enjoy lasting love. A sought-after speaker, she has also appeared on local and national TV and radio programs, including Good Morning America, The Family Radio Network, and Discovery/TLC.
Book Links
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